Strength and Guidance

We have been married for 36 yrs., have 3 beautiful children who are all married, and 8 wonderful grandchildren. God has blessed us abundantly. But recently, my husband expressed to me that he wants his freedom. I am completely devastated. I feel that he is going through a mid-life crisis, but he will not seek counseling. He also likes to drink which has caused alot of havoc in our life, but I have just dealt with it because I love him. My whole life has been turned upside-down and I am having tremendous trouble coping with each new day. We have filed for divorce. Please pray for strength and guidance for us and God's Will be done. God bless you all.